Dear John Meets a Gay

“Stand by Your Man” (February 16, 1989)

This might well be the last time we’re discussing a one-off gay episode done by a mainstream sitcom. Dear John’s popularity burned bright but quickly, and early in its first season it threw a new character into the mix who was not only gay but also gay. Cleavon Little actually won an Emmy for this performance, and it’s deserved, even if some of his antics read a little dated in 2026.

Episode artwork by Ian O’Phelan.